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A tribute to Dad and my uncle
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Ronin
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 A tribute to Dad and my uncle
Both of em have an online obituary that last until the world ends, I pray for them that they find their way to heaven, and that they were saved by god, they were very nice to us(including so many people, gosh the funerals were so packed  so they were popular hehehe  ) and I know he will take care of them, well 4 of em, him and his 3 brothers have made promotion to glory, for one day i believe god will save me and I will see them again, but thats not until a while  and I have a good life with me right now. Many friends, many family, and I am greatful for all.. My dadAnd My uncle
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glad to hear your uncle is doing better, now the problems with your father; That must be upsetting especially so quick after the other problems. I hope everything will turn out better in the end.
It's of course not even worth of discussion if you're way to busy in your real life to continue modding or not; real life must always be dealt with before you turn towards doing a hobby, unless it gives you some peace of mind to deal with your current situation.
Best wishes mate!
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Ah yes, if the heart has a problem, a situation can very easily drastically change, one moment you feel all better, all secure, next thing you know you are in pain, or the situation gets worse. I'm just glad he is trying to the best of his abillities to stay with us, surviving 2 heart attacks at his age is very rare, at least i've never seen anyone else in that age do it before. I did not even realize he was barely breathing those few days.
He is on life support for now, he had fell into a coma, the doctors didn't do it themselves(like sometimes, they put them in a coma to heal, but no, my dad did it himself), and of course, you do not get any normal brain function, and no response, will just have to wait until he wakes up from his deep sleep.
It is better than going into a plant-like state, at least he can heal and wake up.
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Jj Sorry to here about your Dad, I hope he gets better very soon and you and he are in my thoughts.
It is very good news that your uncle has improved too.
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JJ, glad to hear of your uncle, sorry about your dad though.
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My dad had just passed away today, it breaks me to see him, but i know he was suffering and that he kept trying to survive, but his heart failed him, and now he is off to see my other uncles, his best friend, god, jesus, muhammad, buddah (the buddah was an actual person, but his name was not buddah)
He had 2 heart attacks, survived, but fell into a coma, and he had severe brain damage......brain death, and in the state of california, a person with brain death is presumed deceased(dead) he had not responded to anything the physicians did, the diagnostics, no response, just machine breath.
Oh my gosh, just..... oh my....... i really don't even know what to do. I do have a big family, it would be hard if i didn't have this big of a family.
And yet...... it is very very hard. My dad's name is Joseph A. Larot, I think you may find him in the obituaries or not, depends.
And this will completely devastate my uncle James, now i know what my friend is going through.
Please... Someone help, someone, I can still feel him as if he is still alive.
I'm afraid i will be gone again for the few weeks, god bless you all. I will still be around to check and reply, but after friday i most likely might not be here, now it is me and my mom. I still have many people around me, but it still feels very lonesome, I loved my dad so much. He was a very kind person, did anything to keep us happy.
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oh my god........
JJ... I just started to cry, I decided to check the thread to see how you were doing, and now...
I feel more than sorry for you, I remember how my father felt when my grandpa died, it is very saddening for me to hear that anyone has died. Feel free to PM me or talk to me over xfire. Try to remember that your father still loves you no matter what.
God bless you and your family and friends
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JJ
I am so very very sorry for what I cannot imagine. I took it pretty hard when my grandfather died, I can't bear to think about it being my father. You and your mother will get through it together. Being there for her may help you in your own grief.
I look forward to the day when you will be back, even if you never mod again. Come back if/when you can.
My most sincerest well wishes are with you and your family,
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I am very sorry about the lost of your dad. My deepest symothy to you and your faimly on this sad day. You know mate if there is anything I can do just pm me
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Hi everyone,
yes, terribly sad, we had thought my uncle would go first..... my dad thought it so much, he cried and had huge sympathy, also, he cared so much for us, when my mom would stay at the hospital with him, my dad would call the kitchen to get food, just for my mom. I was sooo glad he was very generous, he even thought about me and everyone else before himself, my mom will never find anybody like him.
I am terribly sorry if i make your guys day bad, i just wanted to let you all know what is happening. I just wish I can have more time with him, the kindest and most generous person I ever knew.
I'm sorry.... I.. I can't, I need to be somewhere else right now, man I miss him so much. God bless you all, Thanks so much for your kind words, it does help a lot. Thanks for helping me guys.
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